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In today’s fast-paced and often overwhelming world, many people have experienced trauma in their lifetime and/or struggle with their emotional well-being. With high levels of stress, anxiety, and pressure, it’s no surprise that many people experience intense and overwhelming emotions.

That’s where TIPP skills come in. TIPP stands for Temperature, Intense Exercise, Paced Breathing, and Progressive Muscle Relaxation, and it’s a set of skills designed to help you regulate your emotions in moments of crisis. In this blog post, we’ll explore TIPP skills in more detail and discuss how they can help you survive intense and overwhelming emotions.


The first TIPP skill is Temperature, which involves using hot or cold temperatures to help regulate your emotions. There are a few different ways you can use temperature to your advantage:

  • Cold water: Splashing your face with cold water or holding an ice pack on your face can help reduce feelings of anxiety or anger. The cold temperature can help slow down your heart rate and reduce tension in your muscles.
  • Warm water: Taking a warm bath or shower can help you relax and soothe your nerves. The warmth can help reduce muscle tension and promote feelings of calm.
  • Temperature change: If you’re feeling overwhelmed, you can try alternating between hot and cold temperatures. For example, you could take a cold shower for a minute, then switch to a warm shower for a minute, and repeat the process a few times. This can help distract your mind from your emotions and give you a sense of control over your body.

Intense Exercise

The second TIPP skill is Intense Exercise, which involves doing a short burst of high-intensity exercise to help release tension and regulate your emotions. Here are a few examples of intense exercises you can try:

  • Jumping jacks: Do as many jumping jacks as you can in 30 seconds. This can help release tension in your body and give you a burst of energy.
  • Squats: Do as many squats as you can in 30 seconds. This can help release tension in your legs and give you a sense of accomplishment.
  • Running in place: Run in place as fast as you can for 30 seconds. This can help increase your heart rate and release endorphins, which can help improve your mood.

Paced Breathing

The third TIPP skill is Paced Breathing, which involves taking slow, deep breaths to help calm your mind and regulate your emotions. Here’s how you can do it:

  • Breathe in slowly through your nose for four seconds.
  • Hold your breath for four seconds.
  • Breathe out slowly through your mouth for six seconds.
  • Repeat this process for a few minutes, focusing on your breath and letting go of any distracting thoughts.

Progressive Muscle Relaxation

The fourth TIPP skill is Progressive Muscle Relaxation, which involves tensing and relaxing different muscle groups in your body to help release tension and promote relaxation. Here’s how you can do it:

  • Start by tensing the muscles in your feet and toes for five seconds, then release.
  • Move on to your calves and thighs, tensing for five seconds, then releasing.
  • Continue tensing and relaxing different muscle groups, working your way up to your neck and shoulders.
  • Focus on the sensation of relaxation in each muscle group as you release the tension.

TIPP skills can be incredibly helpful in moments of crisis when you’re feeling intense and overwhelming emotions. However, it’s important to remember that these skills are not a substitute for professional help if you’re struggling with your mental health. If you’re experiencing ongoing emotional difficulties, it’s important to seek support from a mental health professional.

Use this guided meditation to practice paced breathing and progressive muscle relaxation

[Begin by finding a quiet and comfortable place to sit or lie down. Close your eyes and take a deep breath in, then exhale slowly. Repeat this a few times to settle into your body and your breath.]

Now, let’s begin with paced breathing. We’re going to breathe in slowly through our nose, hold the breath for a few seconds, and then exhale slowly through your mouth. Make sure that your exhale is longer than your inhale to activate the calming effects of the parasympathetic nervous system.

Now that we’ve calmed our breath, let’s move onto progressive muscle relaxation. We’re going to tense and then release different muscle groups in our body, one at a time. As we tense each muscle group, hold the tension for a few seconds and then release, allowing your muscles to completely relax.

Now that we’ve released tension from our muscles, let’s take a few more deep breaths, focusing on the feeling of relaxation in your body. As we inhale, imagine taking in peace and calm, and as we exhale, let go of any remaining tension or stress.

Take a moment to notice how you feel in your body and your mind. Know that you can always return to this place of relaxation and peace whenever you need it. When you’re ready, slowly begin to open your eyes and return to your day.

In conclusion, TIPP skills provide a simple and effective way to cope with intense and overwhelming emotions. By utilizing temperature, intense exercise, paced breathing, and progressive muscle relaxation, individuals can regulate their emotions and achieve a greater sense of control over their emotional well-being.

It is important to remember that while these skills can be helpful in the moment, they should not be a substitute for seeking professional help if experiencing ongoing emotional difficulties. By integrating TIPP skills into one’s self-care routine and seeking appropriate support, individuals can better manage their emotional health and improve their overall quality of life.

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